well acc to me life is gud as if one thinks that way it is gud but i belong to category who just cant think life is gud even if i try to convince myself its gud it just doesnt work out dat way...there are phases in everyones life when he has to sturggle to survive this is where ur mindset is tested if ur strong enugh u wont wilt under pressure..thsi phase of life is when u get to know which ppl stand by u coz i am very sure reader must have gone thurgh dis kind of phase..
ppl are always there wen ur happy but wen ur sad dats wen u get to know who really care abt u..reader must be thinking y am i talking abt dis coz everyone knows dis but let me tell u some emotional fools wud turn to the same person again for help who had left him wen he was in troubel i want to make dat reader realise abt his mistake..
as in gita it is righlty said dat "one's ownself is one enemy & one's own self is one's friend" & i think dis is very true..well if ur really lucky to have a friend who has stuck to u thrughout ur life than u belong to a really luck category but generally dis doesnt happen..wenver ur in a problem someone wud surely be there to help u out but it wil generally be a diff person for diff problems...dis is why the mind is vey imp i think to survive in dis world of hypcorisy one shd never get depndent on nyone neither emotionally nor physically..
those who tend to get dependent on others get weak emotionally thus become more vulnerable
..acc to me freindship these days is more kind of knowing ppl whom u can use & throw & if u have been really gud to someone than there is a chance u might get help wen needed otherwise ur on ur own..
living alone is difficult but i think it is better to be alone than vulnerable being alone doesnt mean dat becoming cutoff from the world i mean be careful enugh not to share all ur thughts & secrets to everyone or even whom u think is ur best friend..never let the other person know ur thughts & emotions until & unless u really want to share wid them..
living alone u tend to discover ur self one tends to know the importnace if the line silence is golden..u tend to develop the habit of speaking less thus wen u speak ur opinions shall always be valued..
theres lot more to say on dis topic but i cant write nymore feeling a little tired today wud surely complete it some other day..but i wil end by saying be happy as great mind can be fully developed wen one is happy..
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a couple of quick points :
1)I was like this a few points ago.
2)But then I found two very special people with whom I could share everything.
3)They know almost everything about me.
4)I feel good when I talk to them.
5)Even if i feel low cause of something, simply talking to them helps me feel better.
6)And as you say people have gone through this stage at some point of time, well start using their experience. It will always elp. Yo see you and me have this thing of rediscovering the wheel for ever problem, it wont harm if we just use the wheel for once.
And finally ACCEPTANCE. You've gotta know who and what you truly are, once you've accepted yourself and are proud of who you are, not having any complex, you will always be happy[well almost], no one will be able to take that happiness away from you.
And Ankit we all feel the same way dude, you've just gotta find the right person to trust and it'll all work out.
Cheers!
yup one should definitely not depend on others too much. Friends are a support system, even they have their lives so one shouldn't expect them also to be ther e always. One's self is what stays with them forever. Friends come and go, but one must possess the prudence to choose them (i'm not saying i do)
As my mom says.. golden rule of life is not to expect anything in return from anything, be it your hardword for exam or doing sweet things for your friends and parents, pets etc.. just do your thing and be bindass man!(of course easier said than done,and i am preaching here! :D)
PS: have you seen my blog?
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